I really don't think age matters that much. As long as the baby is loved and fed and not abused in anyway, then there is no way you could be doing the wrong thing by it. I don't know anyone who hasn't found being a parent hard at times, age doesn't change that one bit, as long as ur heart is in the right place and the bub is looked after, who gives a damn what age you are having the bub....
That whole, "was she/he an accident" - what a load of rot!! My parents were married for 9 years, had had their pigeon pair then went away on holiday and low and behold, #3 was born 9 months later! Hilarious thing was that the same story happened 3 years later.....#4 appeared 9 months later!!! (will be avoiding that holiday spot!! lol!) So unplanned babies are not exclusively for the younger mums - people should really pull their heads in!! :mad:
I have 2 friends who had unplanned pg at 18/19 and whilst the initial feeling was shock, what else could they do but embrace their new chapter in their life journey...and they are wonderful mummys! One has just popped out #2 with her DH!!
You sound like a fully switched on and wonderful mother! Oh goodness! I know mother's who have had their kiddies (kiddies now in their teens) and are almost completely useless and clueless as parents!
So good on you and have so much fun as your precious little family grows!!
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