Ok... I have some more catching up to do!

Meg, Galleria sounds great, what day/time suits you?? next week is out for me but the week after should be fine.... Thursday is probably the best day, but i'm not too bothered.

Kass, My XP made/makes a wonderful dad. He is rather clueless.... but at 21 what can you expect?? lol, he helps me when I need help and will hold Brendan and play with him while i have my showers or cook dinner. Gees I miss him so much

Re Pap Smears, I am ashamed to say i haven't had one. I have been active since 15 and when I turned 18 i got hyped up made the appt then found out I was pg. I had a m/c at 9 wks, then had a deep bout of depression. I finally got myself all worked up again to go get it done when I was 20, made the appt and wahlah i got pg again. Brendan was born early in Feb (he was due in May) and due to that rollercoaster ride it took me a while to get the courage again. When he was about 5 months old, I got the courage to get it done made the appt and you wouldn't believe it I was PG AGAIN! I had a M/C at 17weeks and 1 day on the 19 Nov 2007. I am very scared of making that appt again. I don't think I could really handle it right now. I will go and I will get it done before my 22nd bday (in may) I'm on the pill now and we are using condoms also. I would like to have my children close together(1-2yr gap). But I couldn't do it in the situation i'm in now.