Hi Possums
Welcome to BB! I am so sorry for what you have been going through lately. The loss of an angel is devastating and to have your fertility questioned on top of that grief adds to it all. It takes time to grieve and understand what it all means. Planning and looking at your options is a good way to think positively about the future so well done you!

I wanted to let you know a good news story. A good BB pal (36) is now over 20 weeks pg with her second IVF bub and she has no fallopian tubes due to 2 separate ectopics plus cervical cancer at a young age.

For me it took me a while after discovering I had severe damage due to endometriosis to finally decide to move to IVF. I needed to come at it in my own way and time, knowing all the issues but being honest with how I felt. So don't feel you have to make a decision straight away if you don't want to. It is good to talk about it with people, specialists etc learn more and decide your path in it all.

I wish you the best on your journey to have your own munchkin.

xx