Hi frugal im glad i could help Your question about concieving easy well thats the tricky one because everyone is completely different, i was 23 when me and DH started IVF, i was in complete dinial thinking im young and healthy so i will fall first or 2nd go, our first 2 attemts didn't work and then i fell with our 3rd round but we lost it at 5weeks but dont let this put you off because like i said EVERYONE is different, iv heard many stories where people fall first go. But i believe if you go in with an open mind and don't have too high expectations and to be prepared that it may not work straight away you will be better off and then if it does work first go that a bonus. I can understand how your DH feels cause thats how mine feels, it must be very hard for them because i know when i lost our baby i felt the same way, i felt like a failure but my best advice is that you both need to stay positive and believe, thats what has gotten me this far is believing i WILL have a baby oneday. xx