frugal - firstly, . I know exactly how you feel, you're in the same place I was 2 years ago. And one thing i know for sure, is there's never any definites in this area. Until you can find out what the reason for DH zero sperm is, and hear what the fs has to say, there's always a chance. Modern science is amazing. And it's also so true that us girls usually just need to talk about it, examine it from every angle and hypothesise every outcome..but the guys like to have the facts first!! so, that's what we're all here for. It's been a long 3 years for my DH and me to get to the stage we're at now, i don't think our journey is over yet, but the good thing is, the earlier you know your options, the better. And this place is a great place for support. To answer your question about you being healthy and whether you need to undergo IVF treatment - if your DH has some sperm hidden somewhere then you're best option might be to undergo treatment and try to produce as many eggs as possible, inject them individually using the ICSI process, and trying for as many embryos as possible, so as to limit the number of times you or he need to undergo treatment. If an abundance of sperm are found, or if you use a donor, then IVF isn't so necessary for you. I'm also very healthy, though not gettigg any younger, and this was our best option.

Good luck with everything, I know it's a very tough time, you both might be grieving, so just be kind to yourself.