:hugs: Im sure your BIL GF had her heart in the right place, but I have to agree - it is a bit early to be thinking surrogacy (I know its hard)

My gyno will be performing a Lap in 6 weeks through the public system.

Basically he told me the wait for my local (public) hossie is a year and a half, yet if I travel a half hr (Blue Mtns) it will only take me 6 weeks. I first seen this gyno last week. I'll be having a D&C, pressurized blue dye test (for the tubes) and they will be having a look around (I have a cyst)

All the wonderful ladies here reassured me it is only minor surgery (which has made me feel better)

I hope a Lap will give you (and I) some more answers on this TTC journey!

Good Luck!