Hi Reggie,

Sorry to hear you are having troubles. I can understand how as time goes one the blush sort of wears off your sex life. I am sort of the other way around and would be happy with once a week, but DH is always keen for more and forever giving me a hard time. Part of my loss of libido is due to the stress of TTC, 1 1/2 years of IVF, and the endless meds, but I am trying.

I agree with you it would be frustrating if he is not willing to do his part with your clomid cycles. I don't know much about them, assuming you don't get a scan so you don't know when you are Oing? What would be the options of looking at timed intercourse or ovulation induction so you know exactly when you are ovulating, can warn him ahead of time, and it would only be one or two days that were absolutely necessary, anything else would be a bonus. Otherwise I think next option would be IUI, he would still have to produce the sample on a specific date, but this would aleviate some of the the whole timing issues. There would not be much difference in terms of his contribution between IUI and IVF, both he would have to produce a sample. Might be something to consider before going the whole hog to IVF.

Hope this helps some, again I am not the expert as I have only done IVF cycles. Best of luck and make sure you keep the communciation lines open with him. Hugs