Oh .. no-one can deny that TTC long term, can cause havoc to your libido and sex life.

Reggie: This senario may be option for you. My DH has to go away for work at short notice, and we are in the midst of IVF cycle's, we had his swimmers frozen @ the clinic, and with one ejaculation, thers is enough for 6 rounds of IVF .

For you, it may not be the most ideal solution, as I know you want him to be hands on, so to speak, it may illeviate problems short term, so you can use the samples, though you would need IUI, which is $900 a pop in Melbourne.

Have you spoken to him and showed him on paper how a woman's cycle works, men like facts, that may work.

Muppity: hugs to you sweets