Reggie, I think it might be better to work on the relationship right now, there are things that need to be sorted out before a baby comes along.

I know where you are, I was there years ago. I realized that my relationship just would not survive the trials of IVF in the state it was in. If you feel like you are doing all the work now, imagine how hard it would be to do all those appts, drugs and invasive procedures without a supportive DH by your side.

You don't want to go through IVF because there is no sex in the relationship - PLEASE work on why there is no sex in the first place - granted TTC is hard, aside from that.

good luck xoxoxoxo