Reggie,

Like the other girls have said, you need to talk to your DH about it and the importance of timing when trying to conceive. You need to take the pressure off it all, which I know is easier said than done.

If you dont need to do IVF, then I wouldnt suggest it. Assisted Conception is very emotionally and financially draining so would only go down that track if its absolutely necessary.

When my DP and I were trying naturally, he too was "tired" and felt VERY under pressure to "perform" when I told him to. Its very difficult for some men but I can tell you, trying to produce a sample for IVF is alot harder! My poor DP took HOURS for our first cycle and had to use viagra in the end. I felt so sorry for him!

Good luck and I hope all goes well

Tania