there is good advice here, and I would like to add also, that IVF is such a draining process, you really dont want to go there if you can avoid it. Our sex life isn't great right now either, and this whole LTTTC process and our losses are part of the reason, but we are trying hard to rebuild that part of our relationship. You need to really talk it all through with your DH. Good luck and all the best to you