Mildez OMG...I've got a tear in my eye hearing your story about your friend saying you won't be needing your baby things. How heartless and cruel. It never ceases to amaze me how insensitive people can be. I've had my fair share of all that sort of crap as well. When I was pregnant with my twins last year and lost them my cousin rang me up a few months later & told me she was now pregnant with twins. Considering my 2nd twin was still born at 20 weeks I am still to this day shocked how anyone could do this. Needless to say she's rubbed off my list at the moment. I guess keeping friends that support you and accept what you may be feeling sounds like the best thing to do. I will try & be strong like you are & get rid of the friends that wear me down.....