Hi incomplete,
While your test results are going to be overwhelming to start with, I guess the positive is that they give you a course of action that will lead you that little bit closer to your baby. Take strenght from that fact that you have taken more control over your fertility by asking for, and having the tests.

For me one of the big issues was remembering that find out about our problems was not going to mean we were going to get pg on the next cycle - it just put us back on an even footing with everyone else in the population which can mean that it will still take time, and there will still be disapointment...there is no great way of getting around that other than each attempt will be one step closer. The councillor that I was talking to at our IVF clinic was good at helping me deal with the struggle - it did not make it less disapointing, but it gave me, and DH ways to cope.

I agree with BD - get a copy of your results - they are good to have for future reference.

Good luck and wishing you all the best .
FG