Okay I thought I was past needing to vent on this and was being all zen about it but - grrr!

I rang the clinic yesterday to get my blood results (day after ET) and no answer, after an hour of trying receptionist said no one was available and a nurse would have to call me back and what was the best number to reach me on. So I left my home number and then waited around all afternoon - cancelled various things in case I missed the call - and no one rang, after lunch today still no call so I rang up and politely said that I had been waiting on a call about my blood results and the nurse was like (very patronisingly)

'No, sara, we don't call you, you need to call US on the day to get your blood results' (like I don't know after a whole cycle of doing this)
and I said 'oh I did call and I was told someone would be calling back as you were busy'
and she was like 'Yeah right you didnt bother to leave a message did you'
'yes actually i did!'
and then she says, 'well there wouldn't be anything to tell you anyway since it's just your progesterone test you just keep doing the same thing anyway' - without even looking up my results~!
And she never ever tells me my levels of anything as though patients are just a nuisance and we are all stupid and flakey.

I have now realised that the person who is rude in the clinic and on the phone are the same person, it's just this ONE nurse who is horrible to me and was horrible to DH once too so it's not just me. She implied DH was lying about not having received paperwork in the mail. And someone told us in our initial nurses' interview that there was a staff member who didn't want to be here so that must be her. She carefully never says who it is calling, probably so ppl can't complain but I have got to recognise her voice by now and I KNOW it's always the same person. The other nurses are perfectly nice!

Anyway the main reason I am still bothered is that her bad attitude means I am not actually getting to ask any questions or have any information. Which I might actually need for making decisions about future cycles. And I DONT want this to be the person who tells me i am m/c or pg or whatever - but she is the only one who ever answers the phone!! :sobs: