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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2005
    Sydney
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    i would never have another child coz i wanted a particular sex of a child. I know you can gender sway etc, but knowing my luck i would end up with another girl. I think if you really want another child to add to your family, and honestly wouldnt be bothered if it were a boy or a girl, then yep, go for it. But if you have your doubts, and the desire for a girl is a strong one, i would maybe hold off......i just think the sex of your children is in the hands of the gods, and what will be, will be....

    good luck with your decision......

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Logan
    2,991

    I have 2 girls and DH really wants to try for a boy. My question to him is not how happy he'd be if I was carrying a boy but how unhappy he'd be if I was having another girl!!!

    I think it is a numbers game in the end...How many kiddies can you cope with? Now that is a question I wish I could answer myself

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Nov 2004
    Bonnie Doon
    4,566

    I agree with what everyone has said!

    I'm p/g with no 3 and had the u/s yesterday and dh thought he say another doody! To be completely honest it doesn't bother me although I do at times wonder what it would be like to have a little girl...in saying that if we go for no.4 it will in the full expectation of another boy...I thought I was going to have all boys before I even started having kids...
    I have had so many people ask if we're hoping for a girl or is that why we went again and it most definitely is not...every child we have is to be cherished and we are so grateful just to have healthy babies...I have had some people close to me have all sorts of health issues with they're bubbas and so really gender doesn't even enter the equation...
    Sorry for the rant - LOL! It's probably just my annoyance coming out that everyone is saying they hope we get a girl etc etc when we really couldn't care less...

    Only you can make the decision and you have to be happy in the knowledge that you could end up with a lot of boys and never a girl...

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