hey im back to tell tales out of school (well out of the house anyway lol)

I just love this how we can VENT and no one ever needs to know haha
Except in some cases the scenarios to get to the venting is serious and not nice to go though Dont people agree?

I have to be brutally honest DH and i have had so many rough patches in our very short time together it isnt funny and damn right scary . I honestly think it is his baggage that he came in with with his ex wife (who used to abuse him physically and mentally at times) and then accused him of horrible things and made him go to court so he could continue to be in the kids lives .... ironically only a few years later and after all the $$$$ spent on lawyers and courts his kids are with him! Some women are just plain horrible and try to get away with 'murder' so to speak ! Hense my DH has all this deep down baggage that at time even he doesnt even knows exists ONLY after i tell him .... after he has done a b or c towards me !

BUT now he mentally thinks he owes everything to his kids for putting them through all the crap (which he didnt start he just had to make it happen so the children sore their father) ... his ds 19 is getting hand outs left right and centre as he is in tassy and he just refuses to get a job but still expects a uni education and obviously exoect his father to help pay.... well i can understand and apreciate that as i went through uni (bachelor of nursing) and my parents helped but i worked and i worked damn hard on weekends ect etc juts to top up mu account. Mr dss 19 just refuses so dad pays him $250 fortnight ... $150 of that is supposed to go towards board but he reckons nan refuses the money... i asked well where is it all then ... oh it has been spent hasnt it ... Thats $500 a month that is not bad is it especially when your not giving Nan anything ? But i can see this kid being 25 yrs and still no degree and no money as he is too damn lazy to get off his bum and get one ....
See i could go on and on so i wont ...
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