Ummm when I was UTD with #2 and found out she was a she we decided to stop at 2 she wasnt even a day old when I told BHL that I still want a 3rd....

Now that I have had our 3rd I want a 4th.... BHL has warmed to the idea....

I know that I will proble will want more but I dont think BHL will want a 5th...so I know that when UTD with the 4th that it will be my last so it will be a little bitter sweet...I am a bit like FJ as I am only 29 and feel if we went and got fixed up at such a early age there is no going back, but if we do nothing will I turn around at 35 and want more ? but we will just have to deal with these feelings as they come as thats all you can do...