12 months after the birth of our 4th DD i felt like i didnt want any more kids and DH was really against having another,so he went for the snip I felt we had four DD we had a hand full now so in 13 years time it would be so much harder but now that DD 4 is nearly turning 2 and 3 of our 4 are in school im thinking another wouldn t be so bad DH is dead set against it. I get clucking and think back when i was in hospital having them i such great expereinces in hospital thats not to says it was easy but i really enjoyed my time with them. But its not to be and i have to respect my DH reason for not having more and enjoy the hear and now not worry about what could have been we only have the now enjoy before to long they will be all grown up. For the ladies that have had DH have the snip would forster care be a option plenty of kids need good homes
kath