We had this discussion this morning...we've got two boys, one from my first marriage and one with DH. He would like another and I do, but I don't. I guess I'm just unsure as I'm 40 next year and have just lost a stack of post pregnancy weight and I don't fancy putting it all on again. Selfish I know...also he suffers from depression which is under control now but when I was pregnant with our youngest (Jack) DH was in a bad place and it really affected me throughout the pregnancy and I think I had a bit of PND as a result. I guess I'm also considering if I go through that again, will I come out the other end even worse than last time? I suppose I'd be looking for a guarantee that he wouldn't put me through crap again.