hi and thanks for your idea's so far. I do like the idea and concept of some legal proof i have to come back weathor that be a court order or be a statutory declaration if we use a stat dec i will get a nz one plus an Australian one. this morning i will be calling the school and ask them if its o.k with them next year to do this for 4 weeks in school term as this was a question the ex husband wanted me to find out to help his desition. I would think this would be fine But i would be insisitant on them taking school work or having it emailed to us and caned back t the school dont want them t miss out on ANY THING well as much as we can handle with them. I am sure they will still have some catch me up. But my new husband is a teacher aide so he will have no issue in assisting a long with me with the kids school work.

You would think he would know himself what a guarantee would be ( mean he is asking for it) hey especially knowing i married a new zealander and that all his family is there ya would think we would visit them hey. Especially if they were paying some of our fee's.