Yep money is always a problem in this day and age so I guess its about being happy and affordable. We do not live above our means we have to budget and we dont buy anything we dont "Have" to have. We do not have any credit cards at all and we do not owe anyone any loans. If we cant pay cash ourselves we go without. We budget like crazy and we like the op shops and we buy the specials and we are a large happy family without worrying about who we owe this week lmao.

We are only getting the chop because we realise we cant go on having kids forever and we do not want any surprises later on when there is more chance of things going wrong when I am in my 40's. Stopping sperm coming is not the end of the world and we wont go to hell for it lol, well I hope not! I'm sure he will still function just great without sperm. Better safe than sorry I say but each to there own. I may change my mind if i decide on a 8th child!!! We dont need two cars, mobile phone bills, and all the other things that are not nessasary in life, we are happy with each other because at the end of the day when i look around the room its my family i want to see not a pile of un-nessasary bills! My kids dont miss out on anything they may just not own 30 tops from pumkin patch or have every toy on the market. ok ramberling!!!


I think all you women are amazing!