It is a cutlery set that we gave to MIL. It was something she had mentioned she wanted and the one we got her was expensive. She was so happy when we gave it to her. It just dawned on me that they are still using their old mix and match cutlery.
MIL has no trouble saying if she does not like something and swapping things so if she did not like it then she would have said so. If she has re gifted it I will be very peeved.
Aha well this changes things - are you sure she hasn't got it somewhere for "special occasions"?? That's where our good full cutlery set is. We don't use it often.