17 eggs but only 5 embies

**collo04** · February 28th, 2008, 07:25 AM

Chez, Pitapata , BG. BW... Neane and Tigger Land

Thankyou oh so much for all your words of support Ive been out of action for a day cause it looks like dad is pretty sick he had to be revived yesterday and is now in high dependency. He had a better night last night though. Well all your prayers and thoughts have done my little embies good. Scientist phoned yesterday to say that they were all doing extremely well. She phoned again today to say the same thing. so tomorrow if all goes well Ill have a time for transfer. Again thankyou for helping me through my stress attacks I love you guys. And as for mum I had it out with her and she just said she doesnt know what to say and just wants to fix it for me but cant so instead she says nothing and waits for me talk about it. I told her that I need her to ask how I am and care so hopefully I got through to her who knows.......

**briggsy's girl** · February 28th, 2008, 11:27 AM

hoping that your dad continues to improve Nikki - it sucks when things go wrong like that all at once. good on you for having it out with your mum - and at least she's admitted that it's not out of malice, it's more out of ignorance (not meaning to offend, but it's the only word that would explain what i was thinking!!)

keep growing little embies!

**neane** · February 29th, 2008, 01:53 PM

Hey girl what great news about your embies

please let me know, I really hope your dad is on the mend and outta hossie soon. I'm glad you had a good talk with your mum too. At least she was a bit more receptive to how you were feeling and admitted as to where she stands with not being sure what to say. It's funny as soon as people hear that someone has started IVF it's like they get treated with cotton tipped gloves. This is why I love belly belly there are many people who understand how you are feeling and you can express yourself without any judgement. Anyhoo how's everything else going neane.

**kyles68** · February 29th, 2008, 04:48 PM

Hi Ladies

I have just posted a reply on a different forum but think this one is closer to my situation at the moment.

I am a regular reader of the bb forums but have only posted a couple of times.

Anyway, I had my first egg collection today and physically feeling fine - hardly any pain. However, out of the measly 3 follicles that showed on my ultrasound on Wed they were only able to collect one egg. When I was in recovery and they told me I was so upset and when they brought my DH in to see me I had a minor meltdown and just burst into tears saying "only one, only one".

I am so terrified waiting for the phone call tomorrow to say if my one little egg fertilised successfully

I just wanted to say that it makes me cry when I read your stories cos I know I am not the only one out there suffering my way through the Long Term TTC and AC

**belle333** · February 29th, 2008, 05:33 PM

Hi

I find this an amazing forum and a great place to retreat to. I think I come in here everyday now whether I post or not. Its my sane sactuary in a non-sane IVF world.

I had my first egg collection wednesday last week, it was terrifically painful, I cried a lot afterwards and think I would have a general next time. So many eggs, initially I was so happy (and sick - couldn't do fresh transfer - just starting to feel better today - hugely bloated - hopefully next week I can get back into my normal clothes and it doesn't help when people ask am I pregnant or pry repeatedly about why I had time off work).

I knew the numbers would drop, from day 3 to blast. I was so dissapointed but have to realise that we are lucky to have good blasts on ice.

So I'm looking foward to April - hopefully having transfer then!

I agree Kyles68 we are all in this together.

Good luck Collo04.

**collo04** · March 1st, 2008, 12:30 PM

Isnt it nice to know we arent all alone in this IVF journey. WEll out of the five embies we had looks like only 1 or 2 will be suitable for freezing. I had transfer today of an early blastocycst. I was feeling so ill leading up to it this week I was so bloated pains and constipated which I fixed yesterday with some metamucil Yeah!!!! So hopefully in 11days I might have some goodnews that will change our lives...

Kylie and Belle Goodluck with evertything and hope your BFP is just around the corner!!!!