Hi. We have just started our first round of IVF (well I have started sniffing the nasal spray - going in 21 days for the baby retreival and transfer )

I like you felt silly that we had "wasted" all those years. I think all the time we were careful and it wouldn't have mattered anyways lol.

DH came to our first appointment. I have been to the rest on my own. My DH is working away at the moment with his job and as he is on casual any days off means no pay and although money shouldn't play a big part in all this when you are ultimately going to have to pay a big bill just prior to getting the baby bit then yeah money does play a part. He will be by my side for the retreival and transfer - we are going to make a holiday out of it - but yeah I do most of it on my own - its hard but you do what you have got to do.

I hope it all goes well for you - we have 1% sperm - you will get through it!