Hi, can I join in?

I turned 41 last week and have been TTC for 1 year this time (8.5 unsuccessful years with ex husband). Thanks for the website Lissie I will be sure to look it up. Sometimes I feel so old on here with all the twentysomethings popping up saying they got pg 1st or 2nd try. Two early m/c under my belt (one with each partner). I'm madly trying all sorts of natural things to help things along and have an apt with a gyno who has an interest in infertility in two weeks. I'm not keen for medical intervention but as time is no longer on my side I have had to give in. Last time I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility. This time it looks like it might be a hormonal issue. First pg took 3 years to achieve (and only happened after coming off clomid) , 2nd one only 9 months with just old fashioned bding and hoping for the best. I'm thinking 3rd time lucky!!!!!