Hi Possums

im in the same boat as you....with my current partner we have been trying for 2+ yrs.

its not an easy road to go down, but you need to do what is right for you!! if you need time your family should respect that. i find it quite difficult to cope with as everyday i see or hear about someone i know thats become pg.

since our m/c no one in our families have asked us about having kids (except for my nana, dont get me started with that ) though my mum drops a hint every now and again and to make things worse our families dont know we are going to be doing ivf. i REALLY dont need that extra presure

my partner has a 5yr boy which he stays with us when my partner is back in town, it has taken my a good 3yrs to get use to him being around. though sometimes it gets hard to watch him and his dad play with each other, it just breaks my heart...thats what i want.

i have my good days and my bad days, i personaly stay at home more and really dont going shopping that much anymore because i dont need to be reminded. i do get drepressed lot!! it doesnt help that my husband works out of town and im home by myself. my husband has suggested that i go talk to someone about it because i do get really down.
moonflower - has councelling helped???

most of the time i put on a brave face on in most situtions but im falling apart on the inside

Possums - i hope you find the help you need and im glad your getting the support