K1, its just so much to deal with isnt it? My Brother and his wife are now expecting their second, as are three of our close friends expecting - so unfortunately I totally understand.

Its so bitter sweet. As you say, you would never wish that heartache upon them, but inevitably your heartache only increases as more and more of them have families of their own while you are left behind. Its not fair. And the hardest part is having absolutely no control whatsoever over it.

And what else can we do but just deal with it.... oh and drop into BellyBelly and vent to our online friends who do understand..