Well I'd like to thank the people on this thread that have helped me

hollybolly for her awesome post back there, yep I'm not insulted but it raises emotion.

BW for this line: None of us NEED to be a mother. But that biological urge is there for a reason. If it weren't there, where would the human race be?

And minky for making me think, so that next time when I'm sooo envious sitting next to that heavily pregnant lady at the IVF clinic I will wonder what her story is and know that maybe it's her little IVF miracle after say seven tries? Thanks so much minky.

And for the record I asked my DH his opinion of all this and he wasn't offended at all and wondered if he was missing something? I suppose his opinion influenced mine because I never know what I'm feeling :/

But I know that if I had to wait in line because someone fertile had pushed in in front of me I would be ropable. I have never had to wait at my clinic?

When I thought "journalist" I thought some middle aged bloke not a mother with a toddler.