awww hun, big . I won't try and justify whether you DH was right or wrong but I guess it probably is a decision that you needed to discuss before he told anyone.

I hated having family circling like voltures (sp?) waiting for that discussion that IVF had yet again not worked. I also worried about the day if I ever did have a successful cycle that they would know from day 1 and DH and I would never get to share that.

I am very sorry that you are feeling this way and I hope you can get DH to see why you didnt want others to know. Good luck with your cycle hun . Hope your 'crazy miracle' is the start of getting your little treasure x

Lily Dust