Hi there
My husband works away too and it can be lonely, I try to see friends or spend my time doing craft, making things. I try to clean the house and do all the chores so when he is home we can spend the time together. it would be so much more difficult being new to a town, maybe try to do some activities where you can meet people might help. I went sailing when i first moved here and meet heaps of friends there, sometimes it is easier said than done. This thread has helped me too as I just had a friend call me and tell me she was pregnant, she was very sensitve to my feelings as we have been TTC #1 for 17 months but it still got to me as she has only been with this man for 6 months and she was a little irresponsible. I thought I had worked thru all this stuff I was so positive and emotionally stable, I had been working on my weight and exercising looking after me and I felt great. Now I am happy for her but upset that I'm not yet pregnant.
Reading what LG and sazzafrazz said about taking a break sounds like a good idea to me right now, i dont know if I can handle these set backs. Why do i allow someone elses news or life affect me so much?! I just needed to talk, sorry to rant and rave on your thread. I hope you find out about public IVF might be a great option. Good luck, wishing you all the best.