I agree with Ellie - I'm all for you taking a break and regrouping, but do you think you'll actually be able to 'switch off'? There'd be nothing worse than spending all that money on an overseas trip, and spending every minute thinking about what might've happened if you'd spent it on IVF, KWIM??

Darl, I know what you're going through - I wish I had a crystal ball so I could check out the consequences of each decision, sometimes we just hafta take a blind leap