Thanks ladies for your insights.

I think we are going to start saving, with the idea of delaying IVF, but we won't lock in any firm plans until toward the end of the year, so we can also see how we feel then, and of course, whether or not I am pregnant by then, which would be wonderful.

DH and I already feel a bit lighter and less pressured. DH more than me I think, I still feel some anxiety about the best path to take, but nothing is set in stone yet, and I still have hope that we will get pregnant all on our own in coming months.

to all of you