i'm currently going through IUI - so can't be an IVF buddy with you - but hopefully someone will be able to keep you complany on this journey

i just wanted to say that i find the comments from your nurse to be really really negative. all of my dealings with both my FS and his nruse have been amazingly positive - along the lines of "we really hope that this takes first time up - if it doesn't, we'll check med levels and maybe discuss moving to IVF" - there was never a suggestion that they don't think it will take - and even if they don't, why would they share it? i would seriously consider saying something - but then, i'm kinda forward when it comes to my health, so if i don't like the way something is said, i'll deal with it, no matter what. i'm aware that the chances of things happening first go aren't huge, and the nurse was great at explaining it in a way that wasn't so harsh - along the lines of "there's approximately x% chance that this will take - if you don't fall into this group, then we revisit everything...". if i were you, i'd say something - or at least ask the doc what the chances are, and when he tells you, say something like "ok, that sounds so much better than what the nurse said. she told me..."