Hi Kim,
You would think that if you are around people who are trying to fall pregnant that you would be more thoughtful to their feelings, there are ways of saying things so they are not as harsh, that nurse needs to keep quiet. DH and I were at a new Dr just last week and he asked what day cylcle I was up up to, I said 34..which was late for me and that we could be pregga's right now and I was all happy and positive. He then looked at the scans I had just had taken and read the results and said well that says your not pregnant. He was so blunt and could have just said sorry its not what you wanted... I felt like he didn't give a s#$t. And then he answered his mobile phone twice during our consultation...how rude!

Anyway good luck with the IVF and don't let the bastards get you down!!