The bad days are tough aren't they? I had one of those the other day after a colleague's wife lost their baby two weeks before it was due..... nothing to do with me at all but hit me like a ton of bricks and it hit me while I was at work.

I ttc with my ex for 8.5 years with no success... just one early miscarriage. Those days were very hard. We were both tested and found nothing was wrong. I'd go for a while thinking it didn't really matter, that I would just get on with my career and concentrate on other things, then it would get me down again. I now look at it that it was never meant to be... for us (not being together any more).

I now have a new sense of hope just having had a m/c with my DF (after only 9 months - it took 3 years & clomid last time) and just hope that I can keep carrying that hope foas my need for a child of my own seems to be increasing the older I get.... and my time is starting to run out..... 41 next month..... the pressure is on.

I'm not even sure which thread's I should belong to in here. The TTC after m/c is a good one, but should I be in a long term one or maybe the TTC 12 months plus one.... I really don't know, it's hard to know where you are going to get the best support from isn't it?

I hope by the time you read this you are feeling much better. I know that if I cry and get it all out I usually come good again.... I hope that's worked for you.