Thanks on tra-k... I am pretty much the same and understand how you feel totally.

DH and I talked about it all last night. I think the fact we had a natural pregnancy so recently is what raised our hopes, and DH still hopes we can get there naturally....but he appreciates how I feel, so i think it will be ONE more natural cycle, then IVF

The cost is also quite a stressful issue for us at the moment, but we'll manage it!