Thanks Bel, it does help to hear your point of view.
We have been given different opinions by different FS with Sydney IVF. One says they wouldnt waste time and would resume IVF. Another says they'd give it 6 months naturally. And another says 3-4 months.
I guess the fear of another ectopic is a big factor for me, and also the desire to be more in control of the TTC process, and to have a great chance at a pregnancy.
I certainly see the view point that we CAN be pregnant naturally, but as the doctors also highlighted, my insides haven't changed, and there is no way of measuring how much chance we have of that natural conception occurring again.
sigh.
I wish I wasnt so indecisive..
I send my best to you too Bel, I keep checking on your updates and am so glad you have come this far and your two little ones are doing well.