Fergie,

Oh that sounds horrible, your transfer experience. Is it possible that it has contributed to your success rate? I was told that how the embie is transfer plays a part in our success. In my last cycle I told my DH to see if there was blood on the catheter.... of course he was too caught up in looking at the screen that he had forgotten.... again!.. Good think for me was I didn't feel a thing. The FS was very gentle. Ask your FS what was the problem with your transfer, is it normal (which having experienced 4 transfers I know it isn't like that), what else can be done next time.

Good luck hun