Mel, I am so sorry to hear about your bad news. I agree with Ellie - it is not fair sometimes. Spend some quality time with DH (this usually helps me cope). Just don't give up yet.

Ellie, I hope your visit was ok. I would have found that really hard. I find it bad enough just going out and seeing lots of people with babies I don't even know. I hope our transfer went well also.

Hi everyone else