Thanks Lauz
Visit was alot easier than I thought...he is sooooo cute...and of course only stopped crying while I was holding him (Aunty of the year lol!)...my brother and his partner both look like they've been to hell and back poor things....anyway it got all the maternal hormones gushing so I should be in the right place for transfer today...if we transfer...little blasties should be out of the freezer now...thaw little blasties thaw!