I agree with you Ellie- about knowing when you are ready. For us, it was really hard after the m/c. BW, i never thought id be ready again, i NEVER wanted to do ivf again. I just didnt understand. The feeling of losing that baby (and even though it was 8 weeks, it was still a baby to us), was just desperate. Not knowing when, how, why... I will never forget the baby that might have been, but honestly it didnt take all that long before we wanted to try again. Doing nothing, when you know ivf is the way it has to be, is hard. BW you will just know when you want to again. You will feel it, and you are such a strong person, and you are brave enough to face your FS and tell him you are ready, that is, when you are ready!! Thats great you spent time with a little bubba today. Just after i m/c i met my baby nephew for the first time. I cried when i saw him, now i just love him to bits. Im with you Ellie, we just have to keep going until it works, and if, for us, its not this cycle, then maybe it will be next. At least my expectations of how many follicles will be diff!
Hi Jo, thank you Hey and i see you bought your new house, i am way jealous!! Hope everything is going great for you.
Mel
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