Tempting... but I don't want DH so freaked out that he starts talking about stopping, not retrieving any eggs, etc. Too many eggs and he'll want to cancel the cycle, or not have all collected/fertilised.

I can't make him understand that they won't all make it, so we're better off getting them all, fertilising them all and then letting nature decide which are the best ones, rather than trying to pick only a few eggs and going with them.

I'm also not sure what to do about the whole BD thing. With his sperm issues, we need to make sure he's having regular ejaculations - every 2-3 days is best, anything over 4 and quality will deteriorate, and it's not very good to start with! But, I'm simply WAY too sore to be able to contemplate it at all. The US probe today was bad enough, there's nothing else getting near my ovaries any time soon!

Why do men have to be so difficult?

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