YAY BW - how wonderful that you took the day off - and how good are PJ's - they are my favourite attire. Re the baby shower - if you know that you won't be comfortable then don't go. No point putting yourself through the stress. I would write a lovely note and send a little gift.

BG - best of luck with your op tomorrow - fingers crossed that everythign goes as planned and you will be back TTCing in no time

Lou - I will join you for those massages I know how hard the waiting is - DP and I have a new FS appt on 8 May which currently seems so incredibly far away and I am tearing my hair out in the mean time. Lets hope for you that the IUI work and you can surprise DH with the best gift ever when he comes home in September.

Hi everyone else

Me - I'm still in my neverending holding pattern (but learning so much about the whole process that I have to look forward to ferom everyone else)