Hi there...DH and I recently met an IVF Doctor for the first time, ready to register and start treatment. We found the specialist to be very insensitve, not caring, laid back and basically both felt it wasn't a good start! We are excited to move forward, and know that from here we will mainly be dealing with the IVF nurse in our area, before travelling again to see the specialist for the egg collection etc, so it's basically going to be OK.
I just wondered if anyone else has felt like their specialist really didn't care less about their case, that you were just a number, another pay cheque almost? It really felt like he was ticking boxes to get us started and that was it, he didn't ask much about my personal medical history/ectopic pregnancy etc at all. He didn't even know the answers to some of our IVF questions and said the nurse could tell us. He also made some fairly insensitive comments.