Hi Possum - you aren't my husband by chance are you? I only ask because that was his exact experience with our first FS.

He found her bedside manner appalling and refused to go back to see her. I didn't mind so much because as a scientist I understood what she was talking about and wasn't too concerned about her manner - but he was scared about the whole process and her very clinical approach didn't help.

I agree with Brissie girl - find someone who you are both happy with because it is a hard enough time without not liking your Dr as well.