aw hun - i can't believe the way the school are handling this situation! it seems like they're just being awful to the people that do the grunt work, and supporting a person who doesn't deserve it - i so wish they'd open their eyes and see the big picture!!! and no matter what happened, they have NO RIGHT to tell you whether you can provide evidence - that's total BS! i really wish that your colleague would lay charges so that it becomes obvious that he's not just making up stories and that he's serious - how bloody rude to imply that you're not a good christian for supporting this man!!! ok, supportive vent over!

hope that this all calms down very soon hun - i know from other posts that stress and anxiety are high in your life at the best of times, and after the way they've treated you at school over the past few months - well, to hell with them!! - take the time off - i'm more than positive your GP will see what stress you're feeling and support the break - i wouldn't be surprised if the infection at the moment is cos your immune system is down at the moment because of this whole fiasco anyway! and then while you're off - start looking for another job! they don't deserve a kind compassionate, person like yourself at that school - they treat you like cr@p and you're better than that!

take care babe