Cheers Melsta and you are right, it is wonderful to feel so welcomed. I am a total luddite (I think the greatest invention ever is the auto turnover walkman - GENIUS) and was hugely nervous about chatting online. Strange that sniffing strange substances, jabbing myself with needles and letting all and sundry tinker with my bits, is not half as scary as speaking in cyberspace! I think I need some perspective.