Sari - I am so sorry to hear your results, I know what you mean about trying to stay positive, but it is never easy and you need to go through the emotions, so let yourself be sad it is OK amd we are all here for you at any time if you need to vent. This same thing happen to me, and it is never easy, you think finally you get what you have been wanting, for so long and then something like this happens, it is crap and you wonder what one has done for this to happen. I know what I say is not going to make you feel any better, but please try and stay strong and positive and I beleive your dreams will come true and just maybe things might still turn out for the best.

Hollybolly - Sorry to hear you have been having a hard time. All the best with the new clinic, you will find it a positive and new start to this whole process. With the babies name, I have two cousins one born from my mums sister and the other from my mums brother who have named their sons the same, they are about 1 year apart and they are both named John. The child born first, my aunty was frustrated at first but I guess the name meant something to both of them so they are all OK with it now, so I think if you really love this name and it means something to you, why can't you name your child it too

Megan - I know what you mean about convincing yourself that it want happen cause it hasn't yet, but my god is it normal for you to be this late and have you had any treatment to make your cycle this late, cause if not I would start thinking of the possiblity cause to me the signs are coming, they say for some symptoms start around 6 weeks, so maybe just maybe you might get be and I guess there would be no harm with doing a test, it will help rest your DH's mind too. All the best and fingers crossed

For me, I am off to the clinic to have my BT, still no AF as yet, but like I have been saying before, it feels like it could be there any minute and I guess the results will be confirmed this afternoon. Anyway I better stop avoiding and get ready to go and I will chat later this afternoon.

Baby dust and sticky vibes to you all.