BW - I know what you are saying but I also know I couldnt have done half of this without the support of the people I have told......Oh but I must say...some people are horrible and insensitive as you say...get this everyone...I work with the worlds biggest biatch......when my first IVF cycle was cancelled due to my follies not growing.....she said...quote: Well Im glad its cancelled this time as now I dont need to train anyone so soon!!!!! YER its people like that that you could just smash in the face when you are going through something like this!!!!