Rols, point taken. I guess I'm just in a bit of a cranky mood about it all. I guess I also have a greater fear of being childless than I do of dying or losing loved ones, but I'm a bit strange like that.

BB, I was the same once. I was very open with friends and family about what infertility was and the way if effected us. I was on a one-woman mission to change the world's ideas about infertility, and I was going to make sure everyone understood what it was like to be on my side of the fence... But pregnancy and the miscarriage changed all that. So many people knew when my transfer was, knew when the blood test was, knew that I was pregnant from the day dot... and as a result, my miscarriage was very public and "out there". I've since retired from my "infertility advocacy", I just don't have the emotional energy for it now, and need to do things quietly, in a much more closed circle of support... I am glad to know that I'm not the only one who feels the way I did about it all.

BW